When someone is showing their best side, of course it’s easy to give them love. But what about when someone is really in a bad mood, lashing out, behaving reactively or just plain annoying us? Then how much tolerance, acceptance, and love will you give them?
If it is difficult for you to show the person love in that moment, it is a huge growth opportunity for you to learn unconditional love.
It’s not about how much you love someone when you love them; it’s about how much you love them when you feel like you hate them.